Personal Totems

I'm just curious.  I've been told we don't allow personal totems in FW, only pack totems.  ANy reason why?  Also, I'm uncertain about some rules regarding totems in general, though it doesn't apply to FW.  In the cases where personal totems are allowed, from what I read you can't worship and gain the benefits from 2 totems, but if you have a personal totem and join a pack with a pack totem, do you need to abandon your personal totem, or is that more in good taste?

I think that you need to worry about pleasing one Totem before you can worry about a Personal One.   I think the ST will tell you wait until you have some rank and spend significant time Roleplaying with a Totem before you can gain a Personal Totem.   I think gaining a Personal Totem should be a painful, time consuming and heavy roleplaying element that takes significant time.

Or the ST can just say no

Basically what was just said.  There are two or three characters in this game who effectively have Personal Totem, but even they don't have it on their sheet.  It's an RP thing earned from serving the will and being respectful to, the spirit in question.  

There have been several threads about this in the past, I'll just leave it at we don't want to deal with the confusion of two sets of bans.